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Love & Friendship
"Friendship si the happiest and most fully human of all loves, the crown of life..." - C.S. Lewis
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Boris Bazala (left) & Camilla Williams (right)
Boris Bazala (left) & Camilla Williams (right)

Boris and Camilla take a bow after a performance
Boris and Camilla take a bow after a performance
Music built a deep friendship across cultures

Camilla, now in her 80s, was the first African-American singer to perform in mainstream theaters and opera companies. Boris, an immigrant from Bulgaria, now in his 90s, was her longtime accompanist. They performed together all over the country for years, and their two families became close.

When Camilla retired from the stage, she joined the music faculty of Indiana University. The families stayed in touch. Camilla’s husband died many years ago. When Boris’ wife died a few years ago, his sons suggested that he might live happily with Camilla, if she was willing. She was delighted.

They live together as longtime, close friends, platonically, in Bloomington, and both are enriched and nourished by the arrangement.


Friendship, an enduring love (0:26)
Betty Sue Flowers, Ph.D.
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Standing up for a friend in the segregated South (1:27)
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Living together as dear friends (0:43)
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Ples Felix (left) & Azim Khamisa (right)
Ples Felix (left) & Azim Khamisa (right)

Azim and Ples built a friendship out of tragedy
Azim and Ples built a friendship out of tragedy
Forgiveness transforms tragedy into brotherly love

Meet Azim Khamisa, a Muslim father whose 20-year-old son Tariq was murdered by 14-year-old gang member Tony Hicks. Azim was heartbroken. He became despondent at the loss of his beloved son. As a Sufi Muslim, he believed that doing good deeds and being compassionate create “spiritual currency” and this can be transferred to departed souls. So he decided that for the sake of his son, he needed to find a way to overcome his sorrow.

Azim came to realize that there were “victims at both ends of the gun.” So, in his heart, he forgave his son’s murderer and connected with the murder’s grandfather, Ples Felix. In the atmosphere of understanding and forgiveness, they decided to work together to educate young people about the terrible effects of violence. In this process, they have become as close as brothers.

Out of tragedy has developed a loving friendship. These men embody the Hindu proverb, “I met 100 men on the road to Dehli, and they were all my brothers.”

All loves are related, like a family (0:23)
Ethel Person, M.D.
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Teaching children about forgiveness (0:48)
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Out of grief comes brotherly love (0:56)
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Learn more about the organization that Ples and Azim created at the Tariq Khamisa Foundation web site »

Dr. Franz de Waal with his primate friends
Dr. Frans de Waal with his primate friends

Friendly primates share a coconut
Friendly primates share a coconut
What primates teach about human connections

Meet Dr. Frans de Waal, world famous research scientist and expert on the behavior of chimpanzees and bonobo apes. His work shows how friendship and connection operate in the world of primates very similar to human behavior. Chimpanzees and bonobos exhibit feelings of empathy, compassion, friendship and even altruistic behavior, but only for their own clan members. They do not care about, and even might kill, outsiders vying for resources.


Is love in our shared DNA?
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Altruistic behavior among chimps (0:47)
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The limits of friendship in a group (0:34)
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Use these PERSONAL REFLECTION QUESTIONS to help process the material in the documentary and the web site. Think about the mystery of love in your life as it relates to friendship.